Today's FAQ's

It is Monday. Unless you're roughly east of Shanghai, which means it's Tuesday.

Why this silly opening? Because for anyone new here, this is (as far as we know) the only intl. trauma survivor blog written by a guy rape survivor who's not a vet and that's all for free. If you know of another one, send us the link.

In the meantime, this is a mix of holistic content that hopefully will help a wide range of trauma survivors , and not just guy rape survivors. Look thur the links as well to find what helps you. All of the crisis center links are to places that have PTSD trained staff. So that shouldn't be an issue. If you know of others that need to be added, let us know.

Who are we? Because of being raped by two pedophiles, I have 25 multiple personalities and my little kid. This is a perfectly normal way to survive horrible trauma. In my case, it was years of horrible and untreated PTSD symptoms which I'm now trying to face on as best I can.

I'm seeing lots of other sites talking about raising donations. Nothing's for free. Well actually they're wrong. Since the beginning, I've never charged anything for this content. I won't post Ad Sense ads because why make money off of trauma with ads that don't belong here? And I won't change this.

The only things I've ever asked in return are (a) spread this blog to everyone it can help UNLESS it hurts you in some way. (b) Your healing comes first. The urge to save the world is great. However, if you're not good shape first it's really tough to do.

Thanks to word-of-mouth advertising, we now have readers in almost all fifty states and over thirty countries. Think of us as the tiny blog for people that refuse to shut up. All trauma survivors deserve to be heard. If others won't pay attention, we'll build our own network and beat you at your own game.

All we're trying to do is to be heard and maintain a healthy balance. That's a key: you have to get trauma out somehow. If you don't, it will come out in lots of bad ways.

Thanks, and have a nice day.